Am I being overly jealous?
Credit to Author: Tempo Desk| Date: Mon, 09 Dec 2019 16:30:59 +0000
Dear Manay Gina,
My boyfriend told me that he received a Facebook message from an old female friend, wanting to reconnect with him. I know that this female friend was his former girlfriend. He said that we would both enjoy her friendship.
My first thought was that a woman doesn’t go searching out old boyfriends online to enjoy a friendship with him and his new girlfriend. I think it is obvious this woman is seeing if he might be available to reconnect on a more personal level. My boyfriend says I am being overly jealous. I think opening doors to past lovers is a bad idea. What is your advice?
Mercy
Dear Mercy,
Developing a theory about why this person has contacted your boyfriend doesn’t mean you are jealous; it merely means you are an attentive woman who is able to understand the obvious.
I agree that opening doors to past lovers places your current relationship at risk. Why? Your boyfriend might be tempted to fall in love with the memories, when love was raw and new. When this happens, he
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