When it comes to people, patterns rule

Credit to Author: Tempo Desk| Date: Mon, 02 Dec 2019 16:30:28 +0000

Dear Manay Gina,

I am an optimistic person and I don’t display a lot of emo­tion even if I have problems. My boyfriend however isn’t like me. He is very emotional and gets depressed so easily. I don’t want to break up with him, because he’s a really a nice person. A friend said that I’m just obsessed with being his savior. I think I don’t want to give up on him, or our rela­tionship, because I’m an opti­mist. Am I acting reasonably? How do I deal with this?

                                                                                                Florita

Dear Florita,

One downside of being an opti­mist is that optimistic people tend to forget yesterday’s trauma in the belief that everything will turn out well. And in some cases, being an optimist can keep people in bad relationships because they genu­inely believe that things will always improve.

Unfortunately, when it comes to people, patterns rule. If your boy­friend will not try his best to change his ways, his dark moods will re
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